Best Romance Hotels on Oahu

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Jeanne Cooper

After two decades of visiting Hawaii as a travel writer and wife of a triathlete, Jeanne now shares news and views of the islands from her home base on the Kohala Coast.

A moonlit beach and the right person by your side are all you really need to experience romance in the Aloha State. Still, these hotels offer the right combination of atmosphere and amenities — like adults-only pools or spas with couples’ treatments — for those looking to savor some special aloha with their sweetheart.

Feature Photo: Courtesy of the Four Seasons Oahu

TIP: Check-in is typically 4pm. Ask for early check-in. Most hotels will oblige.

Four Seasons Ko Olina
Photo: Four Seasons Oahu

Four Seasons Oahu Resort at Ko Olina

The newest Four Seasons resort in Hawaii is almost an island unto itself. Inside the upscale Ko Olina enclave west of Honolulu — known for calm, sandy lagoons and a championship golf course — it boasts tranquil rooms, casual-elegant dining (including Michael Mina’s Fish House), oceanfront pools, a sprawling spa, unique cultural activities and exclusive excursions. The consistently warm, sunny weather and glowing sunsets provide incentives to linger in one of the four pools. Grownups have the cream of the crop — the gorgeous and discreetly located cabana-lined adult pool, almost as long as the multistory spa’s lap pool and with cocktail service just like the more central serenity pool.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Book a suite that comes with a private oceanfront luxury cabana, or a couples’ massage in one of the spa hale (open-air huts). Sunsets on this west-facing resort are guaranteed to dazzle, too.
The royal Hawaiian Oahu
Photo: HTA/Tor Johnson

The Royal Hawaiian

Now a Luxury Collection Resort (and part of Marriott’s Bonvoy points program), this beachfront, Moorish-inspired pink palace has lost none of its lustre since opening in 1927 in a once-royal coconut grove. Instead, it has only gained a reputation for excellent mai tais, fine dining and a modern tower that’s a luxury hotel-within-a-hotel.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Unwind after a day on the beach or shopping in the adjacent Royal Hawaiian Center at the hotel’s lively open-air Mai Tai Bar, or settle in for a superb dinner at its oceanfront Azure restaurant. For even more relaxation, book a couples’ massage in the garden oasis of Abhasa Spa.
Aerial view of one of the best hotels on Oahu, showcasing a luxury hotel pool area with a curved swimming pool surrounded by lounge chairs and umbrellas. A wooden deck offers additional seating and greenery surrounds the pool, while the hotel's curved building facade is visible in the background.
Photo: Courtesy of The Ritz-Carlton

The Ritz-Carlton Residences, Waikiki Beach

Urbanites, posh travelers and homebodies alike will delight in these exquisitely appointed, residential-style high-rise lodgings with luxury hotel services and a convenient location to shopping, dining and nightlife. The views from The Ritz-Carlton’s two towers of the parklike Fort DeRussy, Waikiki’s glistening waters and Friday-evening fireworks are also exceptional.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Everything is on an elevated scale here, literally and figuratively. One of the two eighth-floor, ocean-view pools is an 1,100-square-foot, adults-only infinity pool with two hot tubs, firepit, and private cabanas. The intimate spa offers a couples’ room; try the Pilialoha treatment, which includes lomilomi (massage), a wild lehua honey scrub, warm stones, floral essences and more. Book far in advance to savor the exquisite cuisine of Sushi Sho restaurant or pick up charcuterie and Champagne at Dean & DeLuca, both onsite.
A white hotel on green land is surrounded by aqua colored water and a sunset.
Photo: Turtle Bay Resort Facebook

The Ritz-Carlton O'ahu, Turtle Bay

As of June 2024, the Turtle Bay Resort has been rebranded as The Ritz-Carlton O’ahu, Turtle Bay. Set on almost 1300 acres with five miles of beachfront, there are just over 400 rooms and suites with oceanfront views, as well as the option to stay in an oceanfront bungalow for additional luxury. Indulge in their extensive on-site selection of amenities from, various bars and eateries to canoe tours. Stop on your way at a fruit stand or find free parking almost everywhere to enjoy the breathtaking waves and views. Venture to nearby Haleiwa to take part in a variety of excursions including shark diving, dolphin swimming and fishing charters.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • For more discreet lodgings, book one of Oceanfront Bungalows. Couples should also check out the spa’s 2.5-hour romance package, including a coconut lava shell massage and pedicure.
A well-lit living room with wooden furniture and neutral tones. The space opens to a balcony through large white shutters, revealing views of tall palm trees and the ocean, epitomizing a luxury getaway in Hawaii. The room features a TV, a desk, and seating arranged around a small round table.
Photo: Courtesy of Halekulani Hotel

The subtle palette of its elegantly understated rooms, breathtaking views of Diamond Head and curling waves, and an illustrious spa lead to “serenity now” at this iconic bastion of oceanfront luxury. Shielded from Waikiki’s hustle and bustle, Halekulani shines as a center for gourmets and arts aficionados. 

Halekulani

HIGHLIGHTS

  • The Devotion package at Spa Halekulani, which specializes in healing rituals from throughout Polynesia, provides a couples suite, Champagne by candlelight, steam shower and air bubble massage bath, scalp and body massages, and drinks and nibbles afterwards, The nightly performance by an artful hula dancer with a Hawaiian music trio at the hotel’s oceanfront House Without a Key is also unforgettable.
A tropical resort features two swimming pools surrounded by lush greenery and palm trees. One pool is circular with several lounge chairs and umbrellas, while the other is rectangular with additional sunbeds and a wooden deck area. Guests are relaxing and swimming.
Photo: Courtesy of The Modern Honolulu

The Modern Honolulu

Those whose hearts get pumping when the beat starts pumping, The Modern Honolulu offers a vibrant nightclub downstairs — not to mention plenty of others just blocks away. Book an ocean-view king room with terrace, platform bed and dazzling vistas of the marina and ocean, filtered if you choose by a sliding teak window screen.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Don’t miss out on the adults-only Sunset Pool. The vibe is much like the rest of the hotel — sleek and chill, overflowing on cool factor. Lounge and snap away; these photos are certain to ensure FOMO. The Grove Restaurant and Bar provides a romantic bower of hibiscus, ferns, palms and bougainvillea under market lights with marina views.
A hotel lobby with sultry, dim lighting leather seating, large wicker chandeliers, indoor palms and more.
Photo: Courtesy of The Modern Honolulu

Romer House Waikiki

Whether you’re parents looking for a quiet escape from the kids or a couple on their honeymoon, this adults-only hotel will definitely deliver. Izakaya 855-Aloha, the onsite restaurant, serves Izakaya cuisine with Japanese hospitality and a fun cocktail menu. Looking for a lazy day by the pool? Head outside to the Backyard Pool and Bar that serves a similar Japanese-Hawaiian fusion and has a plethora of lounge chairs and outdoor daybeds.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Check out their weekly reoccurring events, like Hula Happy Hour every Thursday.
  • Complimentary bike rentals are available for guests. 

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